Here are three Alchemical Love Experiments for Valentine’s Day:
If you don’t have a spouse or significant other and want one:
Pretend you have the most wonderful perfect partner in your life and they are just temporarily away, on a business trip or whatever story works for you. Imagine how excited you will be to see them when they get back and fantasize about the good times you’ve already had together. When we do this we are tell are subconscious, the universe, etc. that we are already in a fabulous relationship and that is what will open us to finding that person for real. Not desperation, or wanting, but the feeling of this is already mine.
If you have a spouse or significant other and things aren’t as wonderful as you’d like them to be:
Focus on the things about your significant other that are positive and the things about you relationship that are positive. List a least 5 wonderful things about your relationship and partner a day. Really appreciate what you have. Give them love and treat them as if they were the perfect partner. Get happy now and either the relationship will improve or you can happily move on.
If you have a great relationship with your spouse or significant other and you want to deepen it:
During quiet times either by yourself or with them, imagine love energy flowing out of your heart and into their heart and then back from their heart to yours, flowing back and forth in a circle, until you feel your heart opening or a connected feeling. If you feel nothing, it’s ok, just do it for five minutes and intend that you will see the results in your relationship. It’s wonderful if you can to this together, both imagining and intending, but it’s fine if you do it without even telling the other person. It will still work.
Try these experiments for at least a week, maybe a month, before you decide they aren’t working. As always, if we feel we don’t have enough love in our lives the first place to look at is are we loving ourselves. If you need some self-love inspiration, check out Jeannette Maw’s The Art of Self Love e-book. There’s a link to it on her blog.
Happy Valentine’s Day! I’d love to hear if you’ve tried any of these or other love experiments before and what experiences you’ve had. To prove it, I’m giving away one of my Angel Card readings (see service page) to one of my commenters during the month of February. I’ll put everyone’s name in random.org and choose a winner to be announced here around February 1st. Then I’ll email the winner with the details if I have access to their e-mail or you can check back here around the first and e-mail me if you’re the winner. If you like my Facebook page in the box on the right side, I’ll put your name in twice.