4 Magical Decisions that will Change Your Life Forever.

4 Magical Decisions That Will Change Your Life Forever.

1.You are worthy. Really. You exist, so you are worthy. End of story. Here’s a post with more about worthiness.  It’s something that many of us struggle with but it will make a huge difference in your life once you decide that no matter what you have done or haven’t done that you are a worthy human being simply because you exist.

2. You are beautiful.

One day I decided that I was beautiful, and so I carried out my life as if I was a beautiful girl. I wear colors that I really like, I wear makeup that makes me feel pretty, and it really helps. It doesn’t have anything to do with how the world perceives you. What matters is what you see.”

–Gabourey Sidibe

This quote actually inspired this whole article because it made me realize that we get to decide who we want to be and once we make those decisions and live based on them we can change everything. You are beautiful and once you decide that it’s true, it will change the way you walk, talk, and move through this world. You will move through this world like the beautiful person you are.

3.You have a purpose. I first wrote a mission statement over 20 years ago after reading The Seven Habits of Highly EffectivePeople by Steven Covey. Since then, I’ve developed a statement of being which describes who I am and what I choose to do in the world. I look at it every morning and it guides my day.

What’s you purpose? If you’re on the right track, once you write it down you’ll get goosebumps when you read it. You’ll know “Yes, that’s it that’s what I’m here for.” Don’t agonize over it though, start with what comes to you and let it evolve over time.

What’s the point? When you have one of those days when you feel like crap and you don’t want to try anymore, when you just want to quit and see if you can find someone to take care of you, you’ll need it. You’ll need to remember that you have a purpose and you must live it. By the way, at times your mission might just be to fully enjoy and savor all the good available to you. You are helping everyone by living fully. You raise the collective consciousness when you add more joyful vibes to the planet. No mission or purpose is insignificant.

4.You have a super powers. Stick with me here. I know that you aren’t Spiderman or the Flash, but here are things that you can do that no one else can do. If  you are a teacher, it doesn’t matter that there are thousands of other teachers. If you are nurse, it doesn’t matter that there are thousands of other nurses. Whatever you do in the world, you are unique and you can do things that only you can do. Other people might do the same types of things but they don’t have the same energy pattern as you and they don’t do it exactly the way you do.

Yes, when you are gone the planet will continue on without you but it won’t be the same because your soul touched it. Your unique resonance was here and it added to the collective and I believe that it will remain even when the person you are right now dies. How much of you gets to stay?  Well, now that depends on how much you of yourself you give away. Don’t worry about pouring your love out on the world. You won’t run out and it will be returned 100 fold. How do I know? I’ve felt it strongly and deeply. Every time I’ve freely given, I’ve received more than I could ever imagine. Just don’t forget to take care of you and pour your love out to yourself, too.

So I am asking you now to make these decisions with me. I’m asking you to write these down on piece of paper and put it in your wallet, make them you screen saver, or print them out and frame them. Make sure your see them everyday.

I am worthy.

I am beautiful.

I have a purpose.

I have super powers.

These statements are all true and the moment that you decide to believe them, your life will change forever. Promise.